to meet a woman at a bar whom you may want to ask out on a date. . ask innocently if she knows anywhere where you can get a good meal. Join a gym where attractive women go. Do you enjoy that first cup How do I find a woman if I'm not especially good looking? Looks matter to. Or do the good girls turn into bad girls at that age??? I'm wondering where they all are if they still exist any thoughts as to where they might.